Monday, October 22, 2012

Women Also Do Their Part

Some guys complain that women can get away with doing nothing, and men have to do all the work in terms of approaching, calling, and putting in the effort to advance things romantically. I just want to go on the record to say that this is simply not true. Guys do not have to do 100% of the work. Just 95%. And the last time I checked 95% is not everything. So keep that in mind the next time you hear some guy complain that guys have to do "everything".

Women do quite a bit as it turns out. They have to put on sexy clothes, makeup, show up, and on top of all that they have to practice the bitch shield. You think women are born knowing how to be bitchy? No way. They start from a young age, roughly around the time they start watching Disney movies. They train for years, from the time the first guy asks them out, to their college years when they are in their prime physically and therefore need to be especially heavy handed in rejecting men who do not measure up.

Some guys will say that women do none of the approaching and have it easy because of that. Again, not true. When I personally ask women if they have ever approached a guy, you know what they tell me? They either say they have thought of approaching and it's something they could see themselves doing if they wanted to, or they say that they did approach once but the guy didn't immediately react favorably so they stopped doing it. There's your proof right there.

If guys opened up immediately to the first girl that showed a modicum of interest in them then you would have girls approaching more than just once. Women do have fragile egos after all. Guys must incorporate this knowledge into their psyche to prepare for that rare and extremely non-obvious time when a woman will show interest in them, to be sure that she doesn't get scared away from approaching FOREVER. So if some girl walks up to you and asks you what time it is and you (god forbid) tell her the time, then you just fucked up big time. This girl will be scarred for life because you were totally oblivious about her interest level and did not pounce on her clear invitation to chat her up and ask her out.

The fact that women could approach men if they wanted to and if the situation was perfectly ideal with no chance of them being rejected, just proves that women are equal players in the dating game.

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