Friday, December 14, 2012

What About Women Who Hate Men?

If you encounter a woman who hates men you have your work cut out for you. You're going to have to bend over backwards to prove to this woman that you are "not like the rest". There are several things you must do if you want to get with her. First of all you must actively agree with her when she makes male bashing comments. You must agree with her when she says that "all men suck", but only stick up for yourself in a tongue-and-cheek manner, and only insofar as she would expect you, and not a little bit more, otherwise you become an oppressive prick. This is where mind reading skill comes in handy. You also want to go to protests with her to support her causes, which is a common thing that guys do when they are vying for the role of boyfriend. An example of this is the most recent protest to Warren Farrell's talk at the University of Toronto. There were lots of guys at that event auditioning for the role of boyfriend of the man-hating women there.

You also want to keep your physique slim and non-muscular. Keeping in shape is good but only do cardio workouts. Avoid lifting weights as this adds muscle mass. You don't want to put on muscle as that is a male attribute which will cause her to feel oppressed. But thin girl-like muscles are okay. Also, avoid chest hair.

Some facial hair is good, but not too much as that will make her feel oppressed by your maleness. Knowing just how much facial hair is good is critical, and again, mind reading ability is critical here.

Wear only clothes that she approves of. And if she wants you to dye your hair 40% orange, 40% blue, and 20% pink then you must do so.

Piercings and tattoos are good if she also has them. She must feel like you are just as rebellious as her.

You want to keep up this and other ass kissing behaviour indefinitely until (hopefully) you hear those magic words, "Oh Bobby, you're not like other men". Within a year after that you should be able to hold hands with her. Within two years after that you should be able to kiss her. Within 5-10 years after that you'll probably be able to have sex with her. Just be careful she doesn't pull a Bobbit on you.

Tuesday, November 6, 2012

The Good Qualities Of Toronto Women

Guys often complain about how the women of this city behave when it comes to meeting and dating them. So much negativity! I wanted to write this post to point out the good qualities that Toronto women have which make them good to date.

First, when Toronto women say they will meet you at an appointed time and place they do. They might show up a little late but they will show up.

Toronto women can laugh at jokes and hold a basic conversation if they really want to.

When Toronto women really like you they don't run away. They actually stick around when they want to get to know you better.

Toronto women are perfectly capable of putting on makeup and sexy clothes and looking good (or at least better) as a result of that.

Toronto women can flirt and enjoy sex on those occasions when the man is perfect, the setting is perfect, the timing is perfect, and all their friends approve.

That's about it for now (actually that's all I can think of). I realize this is a bare minimum and standard behaviour among women in every other part of the world but that's no reason to not view Toronto women as unique and special.

Monday, November 5, 2012


I love I love their numerous relationship articles on why men cheat (because they are dogs) and why women cheat (because their man doesn't satisfy them). I love how they never miss an opportunity to highlight women's accomplishments while downplaying men's. I love how they always show Kim Kardashian "rocking" a new bikini, and show us pictures of beautiful women (but never beautiful men). I love how they quickly report stories vilifying men while minimizing stories that vilify women. I love how they imply how lucky Michael Phelps is to be able to date an attractive model who looks hot in a bikini - check out their article "Look at who Michael Phelps gets to date". By the way, Michael Phelps has won 22 Olympic medals - the most ever! But since his girlfriend is a model and she's hot then that's a fair balance.

I can only conclude that the writers must be strongly feminist and/or white knights. This is a good news site if you're looking for ways to crank up the pedestal that women are on. It's not always easy to find reasons to elevate women, so this news site is a great resource for aspiring white knights.

Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Don't Boycott The Online Personals

There's a growing number of men who are trying to convince other men to stop using the online personals because, they claim, very few women end up meeting anyone and all the messages they receive just feeds their ego.

No argument there.

However, as a white knight I must insist that men continue to use the online personals and send countless messages to women because I think it's important that women feel desirable. The online personals is a great way to help keep the self-esteem of the fairer sex at a steady high level. If all of a sudden men stopped using the personals many women would suddenly start feeling attention deprived and may have to resort to the real world for ego gratification. And we all know what a harsh place the real world can be. Come on guys, let's keep the ego stroking alive for all the online divas and each do our part in sending out mass numbers of emails to women who don't respond.

Monday, October 22, 2012

Women Also Do Their Part

Some guys complain that women can get away with doing nothing, and men have to do all the work in terms of approaching, calling, and putting in the effort to advance things romantically. I just want to go on the record to say that this is simply not true. Guys do not have to do 100% of the work. Just 95%. And the last time I checked 95% is not everything. So keep that in mind the next time you hear some guy complain that guys have to do "everything".

Women do quite a bit as it turns out. They have to put on sexy clothes, makeup, show up, and on top of all that they have to practice the bitch shield. You think women are born knowing how to be bitchy? No way. They start from a young age, roughly around the time they start watching Disney movies. They train for years, from the time the first guy asks them out, to their college years when they are in their prime physically and therefore need to be especially heavy handed in rejecting men who do not measure up.

Some guys will say that women do none of the approaching and have it easy because of that. Again, not true. When I personally ask women if they have ever approached a guy, you know what they tell me? They either say they have thought of approaching and it's something they could see themselves doing if they wanted to, or they say that they did approach once but the guy didn't immediately react favorably so they stopped doing it. There's your proof right there.

If guys opened up immediately to the first girl that showed a modicum of interest in them then you would have girls approaching more than just once. Women do have fragile egos after all. Guys must incorporate this knowledge into their psyche to prepare for that rare and extremely non-obvious time when a woman will show interest in them, to be sure that she doesn't get scared away from approaching FOREVER. So if some girl walks up to you and asks you what time it is and you (god forbid) tell her the time, then you just fucked up big time. This girl will be scarred for life because you were totally oblivious about her interest level and did not pounce on her clear invitation to chat her up and ask her out.

The fact that women could approach men if they wanted to and if the situation was perfectly ideal with no chance of them being rejected, just proves that women are equal players in the dating game.

Wednesday, October 10, 2012

The Sex Part

The more attractive a woman is the less active she will be in bed. But an attractive woman doesn't have to be good in bed. You make her good in bed by doing all the work. And you have to do it in such a way that she doesn't feel used.

Young and attractive women are so passive in bed that they will barely take off their own clothes. You have to use indirect methods like convince them that it's very hot in the room or tell them that clothes look better on the floor. And then once you're both naked sex can happen. But if you use a condom then you have to put it on very quickly. If you take longer than 1.5 seconds she will put the brakes on with the usual token resistance that she can't have sex blah blah blah. In this case it would be best if you have the condom on before the date, so that when you take your clothes off you're all set.

She might offer additional resistance to sex, saying that she's not a slut, and so forth. In this case read her damn mind and try to get a fix on her rapidly changing thoughts, and figure out what she wants you to say and do to make it okay for her. Recite a poem if you have to or tell her that you are drunk and can't control yourself. But she may then want you two to start drinking, in which case you would have no choice but to do it. But the danger is that you'll get whiskey dick and then you won't be able to have sex. This will then turn her off and cause her to complain to her friends about how lacking her sex life is, even though she created the obstacles preventing her from having a good sex life.

The lesson here is that just because you are the perfect man who can read minds, that does not mean you will always get the girl.

Using Seductive Language Online

If you're meeting women from the online personals chatting is a great way to get them to want to meet you. Here is a sample of an online conversation you can have that will accomplish just that. It's a spicy conversation with lots of innuendo. It is truly seductive.

Her: do you drive?
Him: yeah
Her: car? truck? suv?
Him: space shuttle actually
Her: lol nice, will you take me for a ride?
Him: yeah we can go for a spin
Him: you can be the co-pilot
Him: I'll let you take the stick for a bit
Her: oh yeah? I've flown a few space shuttles in my time. I'm pretty good at the stick
Him: clutch tends to stick though
Him:  just ride it out and you'll be okay
Her: just needs a little lube
Him: lol
Him: that helps yes
Her: I'd feel safe with a pro like you with me
Him: you'll be in good hands
Him: start slow then progress
Him: smooth sailing all the way
Her: I'd like to be in your hands

Although this chat conversation is essentially perfect it is only the first step. You still have to meet her, and even if you do there's no guarantee that she will respond positively to you talking the same way. If she responds cold in person then you have to rework your strategy and alternate between normal conversation and seductive language, knowing exactly the right proportion for each. If you don't then don't be surprised if she feels no chemistry. She wants a fire and even though you might have tons of matches, you still have to compensate for her lack of wood.

Tuesday, October 9, 2012

How To Meet Your Dream Girl

Meeting the girl of your dreams is no easy task, and it's something guys always ask. Some of the most common questions guys ask are, where do you look? What do you say? How do you approach? These are all good questions and I want to discuss their answers in this post.

Before beginning your quest to find that special girl you must first realize that all girls are special, pretty much no matter what. So with that in mind your job is to find the girl that wants you, and that is what makes her special. Your dream girl is simply a result of having the chance to be with a woman that will have you. And it's even better if she is attractive. If she's attractive and she wants you, well that just makes her extra super special. Getting such a rare (and common) creature is what I spend considerable time talking about on this blog.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that a woman doesn't really need to try to be special, because as a woman she already is, and as a man your job is just to get one, period. And once you do she will then become the woman of your dreams, and you will be the luckiest guy in the world to have her (which you should announce as much as possible to your peers).

Woman are made of sugar and spice and everything nice and the one that is meant for you, fate will bring you two together. Well actually, it's the sheer numbers game (on your part) that brings you two together and only because she couldn't find anything better at the time.

So look good. Dress sharply. Workout. And learn superior conversation skills to keep up with her uh-huhs and her yeps and all her sentences that start with "so like...". Do this and you too will have a shot at getting your dream girl.

Wednesday, October 3, 2012

For Ladies: How To Meet Men

I wanted to write a post aimed at showing women how to meet men. The tips I'm going to give you are already put into practice by a great many women. But for those women who are still somewhat in the dark on the issue, you might find these tips useful.

Here's the first main tip: Do nothing.

This may seem easy to do at first glance, but doing nothing actually involves work, especially in those cases where you want to do something but want to resist that urge.

When you see a guy you like, do nothing. Keep looking straight ahead like he doesn't exist. If he looks at you look away like he's some kind of disfigured troll. If he talks to you keep your answers short, and then quickly excuse yourself with "I gotta go" or some variation of that. Now, this guy might think you are a stuck up bitch, but that's just because he's not a mind reader - which is what you want. You want a perfect guy that can read minds, and what you are doing is screening for that. Don't settle. Now, you may want to give this guy your number and even have sex with him. Don't do that. If you do then you lose. I don't know what exactly, but in the ongoing battle of the sexes you lose something if you do this.

Only be open to talking to non-perfect guys that you meet through school, work or friends. The big three. And out of these big three only be open to talking to non-perfect guys that you meet in the first three weeks. This accomplishes two things. First it makes you seem down to earth and not shallow, since you are talking with men who are not necessarily stellar. And second it avoids that air of desperation since you are not exceeding the three week window, beyond which you will refuse to make non-perfect guy acquaintances FOREVER. Even when you're 70 you still want to maintain ties with only those people you meet in the first three weeks of the big three. If you want to meet new people you can only do so by going back to school, finding a new job, or getting your friends to introduce you to new people.

Ideally, you will meet a perfect man only through the big three. This avoids the stigma of meeting a stranger out in public, which is a bad thing, even if it's a "perfect" stranger.

If you're on a date with a guy always ask yourself "can I do better?", even if you're having a great time with him. If you had a great time with him, but you still think you can do better then you must dump him and resume your quest for Mr. Perfect.

The guy you end up with must have more going for him than yourself. If you're average looking he must be above average looking. If you're good looking he must be very good looking. If you're rich, he must be very rich. If you drive an Acura he must drive a Lexus. And he must also have more social status than you. But keep in mind that, despite your obvious shortcomings compared to him, this does not make him better than you. Remember, you're the woman and that gives you inherent value that no guy can ever exceed, no matter how great he is. So make yourself better by finding a better man even though you're better than him to begin with.

If you use the online personals, resist the temptation to pick a guy just because there's so many choices available. Instead, be as picky and shallow as you can possibly be, and judge a guy only based on his looks. Screen for the hottest guys no matter what you yourself look like, and reject any guys who fall short, guys that you would be crazy to turn down in real life. However, if you do this your chances of success will be very low since every other woman will also be gunning for the very hottest guys. But don't let that bother you. Remember, you have tons of choice but you don't want the choosing process to be easier just because you have more choice do you?

Sunday, September 23, 2012

How Do You Know If A Woman Likes You?

She's thinking "I like him". That's how you know. Seriously, do you expect a woman to risk social anxiety and actually demonstrate through her physical actions that she likes you? No way man. Just be glad that she has the thought to begin with.

99.5% of women you run across on a daily basis have zero interest in you as a man, and obviously their actions are congruent with that as they show no visible interest in you. The other 0.5% is interested in you, but will also show the same lack of interest. This may seem strange but it's the way women are. They don't want to risk rejection and/or are too proud so they bury their interest so as to be virtually undetectable. Well, almost, to everyone but a small handful of men who can cross the barrier of the known physical senses. ESP baby! If you have that you can pick up on a woman's interest and never have to rely on anything "visible" to go by when gauging a woman's interest level.

If you don't have ESP then you're going to have to approach every single woman to get at the 0.5% that actually likes you. But take heart that out of every 200 approaches you will indeed encounter such a woman. This might sound crappy but look on the bright side, people will say you have lots of balls and look up to you as a result. Just make sure that when someone asks about your success rate you don't say 0.5%. Just say that with all the approaches you've been doing you haven't been keeping track, and that you're just having fun anyway (even if you're not).

Criticism Of Women

Guys who criticize women make me laugh. How dare anyone find fault in humanities perfect half. When you say the word "Woman" it's like saying "America". The word by itself is powerful, and represents greatness and superiority. The ideal behind it must be defended, and to do so means that dissenters must be ridiculed and made to appear foolish.

As a supreme White Knight I feel it is my duty to defend women no matter what they do. The simple fact that I am sexually attracted to women and want to have sex with them is reason enough to always come to their defense. But just in case some of you need additional good reasons here they are:

  • Guys who complain about women aren't real men. Real men get results and complaining about lack of results isn't manly.
  • There are tons of women everywhere, therefore getting women should be easy.
  • Grow some balls. No pain no gain. Do you think a woman is going to give you the time of day just because you said hello to her.

It doesn't matter what the "statistics" say, or how much real world experience you have. It's the die hard passion in your beliefs that counts.

Getting Laid Is Easy

It occurs to me that getting laid with attractive women is easy for pretty much all men. For a perfect man such as myself getting laid is easy because I say and do all the right things. I apply mind reading with preemptive behaviour to avoid obstacles, and I take responsibility for women's actions so that they never have to feel bad about doing with me what they want to do anyway. So based on this, my formula for success is simple.

But for the average guy who is far from perfect, how in the world is he able to easily get laid?

The answer: Money

An average guy can easily make money doing an average job. It doesn't have to be a special job. It just has to make money. Then what he can do is take some of that money and pay a prostitute to have sex with him. It's easy as pie.

So for the average guy the formula to get laid is simple:

  • Get a job
  • Make money
  • Pay a prostitute with some of that money and get laid

This is in fact so easy that I can't help but wonder if it's even worth it to try to be perfect at all. It's a scary thought!

Saturday, September 22, 2012

Interested Or Just Teasing?

Last day at the club I observed something which occurs all the time. I saw girls dancing near guys but with their backs turned towards them, while avoiding eye contact with them. The guys moved away and then the girls went back near the guys and started dancing near them again, once more with their backs turned towards them, while avoiding eye contact. The guys then made a move and tried to chat them up. At this point the girls just blew them off and moved away, leaving the guys puzzled and scratching their heads.

What the heck is going on here? Well, here's the thing, just because a woman shows interest doesn't mean she actually should be interested. It's a woman's prerogative to do that. And it's your job as a man to just cope with it, and if you're like me (perfect) find a way to turn it to your advantage.

So what do you do? At first glance you might be thinking that women that do such things are immature and need to be put on the big fucking ignore list. More insightful people may conclude that the women are not taking responsibility for their actions, and in some cases maybe want you (the guy) to take responsibility for their actions. So should you do that? Should you take responsibility for a woman's actions? A resounding YES, you should. That's what makes you a worthy suitor. That's what makes you worthy in her eyes. That's what makes you a confident guy who goes after what he wants. You need to step up to the plate and work that particular girl even when she gives you NOTHING to work with, and/or you risk humiliation in the process.

If it was me I would wait for the 10-20 second window where she is receptive to me talking to her, in between the time she notices me and the time she decides she wants to tease me. Yes, this time window exists and if you time it right you can get your foot in the door. Look at it this way, why would she cock tease you and not the guy next to you. The reason is because she likes you, even just briefly, and wants to get closer to you in the only way she knows how, by behaving like a passive aggressive immature little girl.

Once you engage her in this time window, you can do the number game trick where you get her to think of a number from 1 to 100, which you will guess correctly (of course), and you go from there.

Women Checking Me Out While In A Moving Vehicle

Just the other day I had a woman drive by and stare at me. But since she was in a moving vehicle there was nothing I could do to capitalize on it. Even though I can read minds and do all these great things, I could not do anything under these particular circumstances. It would have been impractical and just too much effort, even for me. This woman was headed out of town. If she was going somewhere closer I could probably structure something where I "bump" into her, but this was not the case here.

This woman stared at me while obviously knowing that I could do nothing to follow up on it. And this has happened to me numerous times in the past. I also hear the same thing from other men, where women will stare/look at them in public places when the man has absolutely no chance to do anything about it, either because he didn't notice it (she did it behind his back), or because the circumstances don't allow the man to do anything about it (she is in a moving vehicle, for example). Some would call this female self-sabotage, but I just call it a creative way for women to challenge us men to develop the necessary skills to overcome this difficulty. This is evolution at work. Either adapt or die.

I think one way to overcome this difficulty is by being able to teleport to the location where the woman is eventually headed, and then with the remaining skills I have I could approach her and close the deal. I could also possibly use mental powers to cause the vehicle to break down forcing the woman to pull over, at which point I could assist her and use that as my way in. But I don't know if such mental powers are even possible, so I'll shelf this idea for now.

The Inherent Value Of Women

People often talk about how great women are and imply, either directly or indirectly, that women are better than men. But they don't say why. So what I'm going to do is break down the basic rationale people have for saying this.

Let's start with the following statement: Women are superior to men. To prove this let's say a woman accomplishes a certain something. If a man accomplishes the same thing he has less value for doing it. Therefore women are superior.

Makes sense right?

A man had better really stand out to get with an attractive woman (which there are many of), but even a true stand-out among men has less value than an attractive woman which is much more common than even the rarest most awesomest of men.

A woman can get away with doing much less than a man because she is superior. Therefore a man must be perfect to be on the same playing field.

A woman slaps on makeup and sexy clothes, and raises her womanly value considerably. Hence, she deserves a NATURALLY great man with tons of amazing traits. Only can such a man be worthy of the value of this woman, which has largely been enhanced by artificial means. Once again, this proves that women are superior.

You see, women have value BECAUSE they are women. They can give birth and are therefore creatures unlike no other (regardless of the fact that half of all species are female and are therefore capable of the same thing). Sure, men invent and build almost everything, but they do so largely to please women. Therefore women are superior.

Friday, September 21, 2012

At The Club

I was at a club last night and it's become old hat for me seeing what went on. You see the usual group of men standing around looking at the usual group of women dancing in a group, women who are completely standoffish to the average male club patron. Why oh why do the women do this, many guys wonder. Well gee, it's obvious. In that environment women react with hostility to a male presence. You really need to have something special going on to get with the women there. And the loud music certainly doesn't help either. It's actually hard to read anyone's thoughts with that loud music, which is why I always make sure I'm well rested before going to a club, and I avoid drinking alcohol there because it messes up my telepathic abilities.

I started off the night by reading the minds of all the girls in this one group and picking out the leader of the group that way; the leader being the girl whom the other girls follow like pigeons if she decides to do anything like call an emergency meeting in the washroom in order to pull her friends away from guys that she personally doesn't like. So once I picked out the leader the next challenge was to make minimal but amazing conversation given the loud music. You see, women will interpret any try hard behaviour in clubs as weak, even if all you're doing is trying to be heard. So avoid this. I told the group leader that I can guess any number she is thinking from 1 to 100. That got her into me. But I could sense her friends starting to get jealous and wanting to drag her away from me, so I had to engage the whole group, using the same number game. That got all their attention. I then had to switch topics because even though I clearly demonstrated ESP ability, these are club girls, and remember, club girls get bored very easily. So I had to stimulate them with something else. Fortunately, I have quite the bag of tricks. I started talking about things I did at my last party, which is very similar to what they did at their last party.

I was engaging the whole group doing almost all the talking, which is really the only way to engage whole groups of girls in clubs. I simply cannot count on them to reciprocate me in return. As the perfect man I can't afford to dwell on petty sentiments like give and take, and concepts of 50/50. I always need to do close to 100% otherwise I may as well just stay home and jerk off.

So I got the whole group of girls to like me and then I telepathically sniffed out which girl would want me to ask for her number, while having the approval of all her other friends. None of them made it obvious in ways that an average guy could pick up on, so I had to find out that information via a mental scan. If I were to get this wrong the girls would get irritated at me for being "clueless" and simply move on.

So it was a good night. I got the number of the girl who really wanted to give it to me (with her friends approval) and I'll call her up in a few days. And I'll know exactly how many days she wants me to wait before calling her. I had sniffed out that little tidbit while at the club.

Your Presence Is Creeping Her Out

I used to have this problem quite a bit. I would walk somewhere minding my own business and some woman would think I was stalking her for the simple reason that I was a man walking in the same direction as her. This is a sure fire killer of any chance you have with a woman, so it's your job as the perfect man to fix this situation if it ever occurs.

The first thing to do is avoid, if possible, this situation. Walk in such a way that you get to where you are going but avoid walking in trajectories that can cause any woman you have interest in to think you're a potential stalker or rapist. To do this you have to mentally map out the safe distance and directions with which to walk behind the women you fancy, and you have to come across as completely uninterested in them, at least in their mind. Even something as simple as brief eye contact can set off alarm bells, so avoid this. It helps if you have a phone you can pull out of your pocket with which to fiddle, as it communicates that your mind is occupied with something other than stalking.

Another way is to walk in front of her and into the places you know she will be. This will be a snap if you have mind reading ability since you can follow her without ever looking to see where she is going - you will know ahead of time. And how romantic is it for her to just happen to run into the man of her dreams who says all the right things and who just happened to be in the right place at the right time.

It also helps to wear shoes that don't make much noise when walking. If your shoes make a dull tapping sound on a hard floor it can remind her of movies where the bad guy is walking behind his female victim in a dark part of town, making noisy steps as he creeps closer and closer. Avoid this! But at the same time you don't want to be totally silent as that will also scare her once she sees you because she never heard you coming. So wear running shoes or something that makes a bit of noise. Remember, learning how to not be creepy takes time and is something all men, in their quest for perfection, must strive for.

But even with the most perfect planning and trajectory selection you can still run into problems. Allow me to explain. I was recently at a bookstore and had mapped out my walking trajectory in such a way that I ended up in the section that this hottie wanted to go to. But since she was fearful of men she avoided that section even though I know that she was interested in it. So what I then did was time my checkout so that I was there just in front of her. I then pretended to accidentally drop a book I was going to buy - a book I knew she was interested in. I asked her if she ever read that book (I know she did), and she immediately lit up and started describing it. The conversation flowed easily from there and I invited her for a yogurt at the nearby food court (since I knew she went there a lot). But I had also mentioned that I knew the owner which I knew is a friend of hers, so that immediately made her more comfortable. And the rest is history.

Thursday, September 20, 2012

Walking down the street, with the right shoes

Women love shoes and they judge a man based on his shoes. So you have to have the right shoes on. But what about the fact that different women have different shoe preferences? What do you do then? I personally use a backpack and carry around a sufficient number of different shoes that you can slip on depending on the woman you run across. The last thing you want is to be hitting it off with a woman and then have her glance down at your shoes, grimace, and then quickly excuse herself because she just remembered there's somewhere she needs to be.

So, I often carry a backpack around for this reason. Like yesterday for instance. I see this attractive woman in a blue dress browsing through the magazines in a bookstore. I do a mental sweep and I find out that she likes guys who wear grey sports shoes with a red stripe along the bottom. Anything else and she moves on to the next guy. Fortunately I was carrying grey sports shoes in my backpack, but they didn't have a red stripe. So I improvised. I got some red paint, the kind of paint that adheres well to shoes, and applied it to the shoes in a stripe shape along the bottom. I then located the same woman who was now in a different store, thanks to my telepathic abilities, and started up a conversation with her. It flowed smoothly from there. But you see, it wasn't enough just to click with her personality wise. I had to have the right shoes on otherwise things would have flopped and I never would have had a chance with this woman.

But I also understand if you just don't have access to the right shoes for a particular woman. In that case you have to find out under what circumstances she would accept the shoes that you are wearing and then synthesize those circumstances, either with the correct backstory or whatever. And if there are no such circumstances then have a fake cast for both feet which you can put on, and some crutches of course. And then in the conversation casually slip in that you miss those particular shoes that you can't wear until you get the cast off. Do this and you will have a good chance to get the girl.

At The Gym

Women at the gym where I go are very stone faced and indifferent to the men there, but occasionally I will spot (sense actually) a woman checking me out when I'm not looking. Now, you might think that with this inside knowledge all I have to do is walk up to the woman and seal the deal. Well, you would be wrong. Even though she is checking me out she will still be extremely opposed to meeting me, because 1) I'm a man in a public place, and 2) Her friends would disapprove of it. So what I have to do is tap her memories to see if there's any particular social situation she would feel comfortable meeting a man in and emulate that into my approach. And in addition I have to come across as someone her friends would like. This means I have to tap her thoughts to find out what her friends are like and the kind of people they hang out with and then incorporate that into my approach.

For example, let's say I tap her thoughts and I find out that she is only receptive to men who have tattoos on their left arm (the same as her first love). So what I have to do is get a tattoo on my left arm, which means I have to wait until the next time I see her at the gym. OR I have a (non-permanent) tattoo kit in my car which I can apply quickly in the space of a few minutes and then return to the gym while she's still there. In addition I may also incorporate some other things into my appearance which I know her friends would approve of, like a cool bracelet or whatever. This means having a trunk full of different stuff you can utilize for just these circumstances, on short notice.

The remainder of the things you have to do can be done on the spot, things which are personality related and which you can do once you scanned her mind.