Saturday, September 22, 2012

Interested Or Just Teasing?

Last day at the club I observed something which occurs all the time. I saw girls dancing near guys but with their backs turned towards them, while avoiding eye contact with them. The guys moved away and then the girls went back near the guys and started dancing near them again, once more with their backs turned towards them, while avoiding eye contact. The guys then made a move and tried to chat them up. At this point the girls just blew them off and moved away, leaving the guys puzzled and scratching their heads.

What the heck is going on here? Well, here's the thing, just because a woman shows interest doesn't mean she actually should be interested. It's a woman's prerogative to do that. And it's your job as a man to just cope with it, and if you're like me (perfect) find a way to turn it to your advantage.

So what do you do? At first glance you might be thinking that women that do such things are immature and need to be put on the big fucking ignore list. More insightful people may conclude that the women are not taking responsibility for their actions, and in some cases maybe want you (the guy) to take responsibility for their actions. So should you do that? Should you take responsibility for a woman's actions? A resounding YES, you should. That's what makes you a worthy suitor. That's what makes you worthy in her eyes. That's what makes you a confident guy who goes after what he wants. You need to step up to the plate and work that particular girl even when she gives you NOTHING to work with, and/or you risk humiliation in the process.

If it was me I would wait for the 10-20 second window where she is receptive to me talking to her, in between the time she notices me and the time she decides she wants to tease me. Yes, this time window exists and if you time it right you can get your foot in the door. Look at it this way, why would she cock tease you and not the guy next to you. The reason is because she likes you, even just briefly, and wants to get closer to you in the only way she knows how, by behaving like a passive aggressive immature little girl.

Once you engage her in this time window, you can do the number game trick where you get her to think of a number from 1 to 100, which you will guess correctly (of course), and you go from there.

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